Why We Don’t Believe in “Positive Only” Dog Training

Key Takeaways:

  1. Balanced dog training combines praise and corrections for clear, effective communication.

  2. Positive only methods miss half the message—dogs need structure and accountability.

  3. Real-world obedience takes more than treats—it takes clear boundaries and feedback.

  4. Corrections done fairly are not cruel—they’re crucial to safe, confident dogs.

  5. Dog obedience training should build trust, clarity, and real-life reliability.

spaniel eating a treat in positive dog obedience training

When it comes to living in harmony with others—human or canine—there’s one universal truth: behavior has consequences.

In our everyday lives, boundaries and consequences guide our actions. Drive too fast, and you get a ticket. Break a rule at work, and you might face discipline. These consequences are not rooted in cruelty; they are a part of how we learn, stay safe, and coexist respectfully. The same principle applies to dog training.

The Role of Positive Reinforcement in Training

Balanced dog obedience training uses positive reinforcement as a foundational tool. Don’t get us wrong—we love positive reinforcement, and we use it every single day. There’s no denying its value, especially when it comes to learning. In fact, positive-only methods are incredibly effective in the following situations:

  • Teaching puppies basic manners and expectations

  • Building trust and engagement with nervous or new dogs

  • Shaping new behaviors during the early stages of obedience

  • Boosting a dog’s confidence in controlled environments

Praise, treats, toys, and enthusiasm can go a long way in motivating a dog and building a bond. But while positive reinforcement plays a critical role in early training, it is not the full picture.

Dogs Live in the Moment

Unlike humans, dogs don't understand delayed consequences. We can't explain to a dog, "If you jump on guests today, we won't go to the park tomorrow." That type of future reasoning doesn't register. Dogs respond to what works in the here and now. If jumping on someone earns them attention, and there's no consequence, why stop?

That’s why balanced dog training—a method that includes both positive reinforcement and fair, appropriate corrections—is essential. It mirrors the natural learning processes animals understand. They need to know not only what behaviors do work but also what doesn’t.

The Role of Corrections in Dog Training

Corrections are not about punishment, intimidation, or force. When applied appropriately, corrections are simply information. They fill in the blanks where positive reinforcement alone can leave confusion.

Picture this: your dog bolts out the front door every time it opens. You’ve trained them to sit for treats, but the thrill of the outside world outweighs any food you offer. If you never introduce consequences for ignoring your commands, your hours of training falls apart in high-stakes situations.

Incorporating corrections into your training routine offers a more complete understanding for your dog. You’re not just saying, "Do this and get a treat," but also, "If you ignore this command, there’s a result to that too."

Why Balanced Training is Kinder

It may sound counterintuitive, but setting boundaries is one of the kindest things you can do for your dog. It would be like giving a child the same test over and over, failing every time, and never receiving feedback on which questions they got wrong. Over time, they become confused, frustrated, and disengaged. This is known as learned helplessness—and dogs experience it, too.

When dogs don’t receive clear, consistent communication about what behaviors are acceptable, they lose confidence. A dog who only receives praise for the right behavior but no feedback on the wrong ones ends up navigating the world with uncertainty.

Obedience training is about more than just teaching commands; it’s about building confidence, trust, and clarity. Corrections, when used fairly, contribute to this just as much as praise does.

Real-World Challenges Require Realistic Training

We don’t live in controlled environments. Dogs encounter distractions, temptations, and unexpected triggers every day: squirrels, open doors, unfamiliar dogs, kids with snacks, and more. In these real-world scenarios, relying solely on a one-size-fits-all, positive only approach can backfire.

For example:

  • A dog trained only with food may bolt after a squirrel, ignoring commands.

  • A dog rewarded for calmness around guests may still lunge if there's no correction for jumping.

  • A recall command taught only with praise may be ignored during a moment of high excitement or prey drive. 

Balanced training prepares dogs for the unpredictability of everyday life by building reliability, even when distractions are intense. It reinforces not only desirable behaviors but also instills accountability for choices your dog makes in the moment.

Addressing Common Misconceptions

Many people equate corrections with cruelty. But correction does not mean punishment. It means consequence. A leash pop, a firm "no," or a timeout can communicate clearly without causing fear or pain. The goal is not to frighten your dog into obedience, but to teach them with clarity and consistency.

Conversely, positive only training is often mistaken as synonymous with kindness. But allowing a dog to remain confused, reactive, or unsafe simply because you refuse to give a correction can be unkind in the long run.

Kindness and effectiveness are not mutually exclusive. Balanced training embodies both.

The Importance of Communication in Dog Obedience Training

Clear communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship—and that includes the one between you and your dog. Balanced dog training ensures your dog understands both sides of the behavioral coin:

  • Do this = good things happen

  • Do that = something unpleasant follows(this does not mean pain)

This isn’t about dominating your dog or being a "pack leader" in outdated terms. It’s about creating a language your dog can consistently understand and respond to.

Dogs Deserve Clarity, Not Confusion

When you rely on positive only techniques, you’re giving your dog half the story. Imagine trying to navigate a job where you only get praised when you do something right, but never hear a word when you make a mistake. You wouldn’t know what to improve. You wouldn’t know how to succeed.

Dogs deserve better.

They deserve trainers and owners who are committed to providing them with every tool they need to thrive: encouragement when they get it right, and fair consequences when they don’t. That’s how dogs learn best.

Conclusion: It’s About Respect and Responsibility

In the end, dog training isn’t about choosing between being kind or being firm. It’s about being honest, respectful, and responsible. Dogs thrive in environments where expectations are clear, communication is consistent, and boundaries are enforced fairly.

Positive only training, while well-intentioned, often fails to provide the complete structure dogs need. Balanced training—which combines praise, rewards, and corrections—honors your dog’s intelligence and respects their need for clarity.

We owe it to our dogs to train them in ways that are not just loving, but also effective and fair. Because at the end of the day, a well-trained dog isn’t just obedient—they’re confident, secure, and truly free to live their best life.